Expressive Arts Therapy: Self-Esteem Help

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Welcome back to a continuation in our journey through Expressive Arts Therapy (see last week’s blog, Expressive Arts Therapy: Exploring Creativity in Healing, for more info). Last week, I delved into the Expressive Arts Therapy, exploring its definition, how it can be a transformative tool for healing of a variety of concerns like anxiety, depression, and trauma, and some ideas for interventions that can be used in therapy with a trained professional. Today, I’m taking a deeper dive into a particularly crucial aspect of personal development, self-esteem, and how Expressive Arts Therapy can help.

Just for a quick refresher, though, here’s a definition of Expressive Arts Therapy: Expressive Arts Therapy is a form of psychotherapy that encourages individuals to explore and express their thoughts, feelings, and experiences through various creative modalities such as visual arts, movement, music, drama, and writing. A special aspect of the theory is that one artistic expression informs the next, such as drawing then creating a 3D piece then expressing through singing. Each section leads to more awareness and healing. One important thing to remember about using this theory is that there is NO experience needed in the arts. The process, not the product, is what’s important. So, let’s talk about how it can help self-esteem!

What is Self-Esteem?

Self-esteem refers to the subjective evaluation of one’s own worth and value as a person. It encompasses beliefs about oneself, including feelings of competence, adequacy, and self-worth. It’s important to note that self-esteem is not fixed and can fluctuate over time based on various factors, such as life experiences, relationships, and internal dialogue. Additionally, self-esteem is influenced by both internal and external factors, including personal achievements, social comparisons, and feedback from others.

In the context of expressive arts therapy, addressing self-esteem involves exploring and understanding one’s beliefs, emotions, and experiences through creative expression. By engaging in art/music-making processes, individuals can gain insight into their thoughts and feelings, challenge negative self-perceptions, and cultivate a more compassionate and accepting relationship with themselves.

Understanding the Inner Critic

One aspect of self-esteem involves the inner critic. The inner critic is that nagging voice inside our heads, constantly berating us with self-doubt, criticism, and negativity. It’s the relentless inner voice that tells us we’re not good enough, smart enough, or worthy of love and success.

  • What is it? The inner critic is essentially the manifestation of our negative self-talk, shaped by past experiences, societal pressures, and our own insecurities.
  • How does it present in people? For many individuals, the inner critic manifests as persistent self-doubt, fear of failure, and a pervasive sense of inadequacy. It can lead to feelings of anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem.
  • How can Expressive Arts Therapy address it? Through creative expression, clients can externalize their inner dialogue, gaining perspective on its origins and impact. For example, imagining your inner critic as a small image of yourself then telling it how it’s wrong about what it says. (This is an extremely basic version of the intervention, so it’s just for you to have an idea of what it could look like.)

Navigating Imposter Syndrome

Another aspect of self-esteem struggles can include imposter syndrome. Imposter syndrome is a common phenomenon characterized by feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt, despite evident success or competence. It’s the persistent fear of being exposed as a fraud, despite ample evidence to the contrary.

  • What is it? Imposter syndrome is often fueled by perfectionism, fear of failure, and the belief that one’s success is undeserved or the result of luck rather than skill or effort.
  • How it can be specific to artists? Artists, in particular, may experience imposter syndrome due to the subjective nature of their work and the constant comparison to others in their field. The pressure to create original and meaningful art can exacerbate feelings of self-doubt and inadequacy.
  • How can Expressive Arts Therapy help? Through artistic activities, individuals can confront their fears of failure and perfectionism, embracing the process of creation rather than fixating on the end result. For example, a client may write song lyrics about how they feel, leading to greater insight for thoughts that are illogical and unhealthy which can be addressed.

My Experience with Integrative Therapy

The way I use research-based theories in therapy depends on many factors, including the unique client’s needs, personality, and openness. Most therapists use their professional judgment to guide the way they handle each session with a client. In my practice, I integrate Expressive Arts Therapy with a few other evidence-based theories to help you with your concerns, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Behavioral Therapy, and Humanistic approaches. Notice how above I mentioned awareness about thoughts? This is when I may then use CBT to address what rose from using Expressive Arts Therapy. Integrating theories creates a comprehensive and individualized treatment plan for each of my clients. Since Expressive Arts Therapy has an emphasis on expression, imagination, active participation, and mind-body connection, it works well for my thinking out of the box style. Just in case you don’t know what the other theories are, here’s a brief description, including links to a few past blogs about them in depth.

·       CBT focuses on identifying and challenging maladaptive thought patterns and behaviors. Read more about it in this blog post.

·       Behavioral therapy emphasizes the role of environmental factors in shaping behavior. Read more about it in this blog post (specific to ADHD).

·       Humanistic therapy emphasizes empathy, authenticity, and personal growth, fostering a supportive therapeutic relationship.

By incorporating Expressive Arts Therapy techniques alongside these other therapeutic modalities, I aim to provide clients with a diverse toolkit for self-exploration, healing, and growth.

Let’s Help Your Self-Esteem

Self-esteem is a fundamental aspect of our emotional well-being, influencing how we perceive ourselves and navigate the world around us. Expressive Arts Therapy offers a holistic approach to addressing issues related to self-esteem, empowering individuals to cultivate self-awareness, self-compassion, and authenticity through creative expression.

If you’re interested in learning more about how Expressive Arts Therapy can support your journey towards greater self-esteem and personal development, I encourage you to reach out and schedule a free 15 minute consultation call with me. I provide online individual therapy for Florida residents but also offer online workshops for a variety of topics (including Expressive Arts Therapy interventions) for anyone in the US. Together, we can embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery and healing through the power of art and creativity. Remember, you are worthy of love, success, and belonging, just as you are.

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Boosting Your Self-Esteem for a Better Life

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Have you ever thought about your self-esteem? I’m sure you have. So, is it at the level you want for your life? Can it be better? Healthier? Well, let’s talk about understanding how self-esteem can impact your life and why it’s important for you to consider seeking help if you feel that your self-esteem needs a boost. In this blog post, I’ll explore the concept of self-esteem, its effects on various aspects of your life, and how to determine if self-esteem therapy is the right path for you.

What is Self-Esteem?

Self-esteem is the way you perceive and value yourself; the belief you hold about your worth and abilities. This perception plays a pivotal role in your overall well-being and how you navigate life. When your self-esteem is healthy, you’re more likely to make positive life choices, pursue your dreams, and develop healthier relationships. Conversely, low self-esteem can hinder your personal and professional growth, leading to a variety of concerns including self-doubt, anxiety, and a less fulfilling life.

But guess what! Self-esteem isn’t static; it can change over time and in response to various life experiences. It’s like a plant that needs nurturing and care to grow. Fortunately, there are ways to improve your self-esteem, and one of the most effective ways to do that is through self-esteem therapy.

Is Self-Esteem Therapy Right for You?

Before you embark on your journey to improved self-esteem, it’s important to ask yourself some questions. These can help you determine whether you could benefit from self-esteem therapy. Remember, self-esteem issues are more common than you might think, and there’s no shame in seeking help. Here are some questions to consider:

1. Do I Constantly Doubt Myself?

One of the telltale signs of low self-esteem is a persistent self-doubt. If you find yourself questioning your abilities, second-guessing your decisions, or feeling incapable, it might be time to seek help.

2. Am I Overly Self-Critical?

Do you often criticize yourself harshly for the smallest mistakes or imperfections? High levels of self-criticism can erode your self-esteem and overall well-being.

3. Does Rejection or Criticism Devastate Me?

How do you handle criticism or rejection? If you find that even minor criticism or rejection sends you spiraling into self-loathing or despair, it’s a sign that your self-esteem might need a boost.

4. Am I Afraid to Pursue My Goals?

Low self-esteem can hinder your ability to set and achieve goals. If you often avoid pursuing your dreams because you don’t believe in yourself, therapy can help you regain your confidence.

5. Are My Relationships Suffering?

Low self-esteem can strain your relationships. If you find it difficult to trust others, express your needs, or maintain healthy boundaries, it’s worth considering therapy.

6. Is My Mental Health Affected?

Mental health issues such as anxiety and depression often coexist with low self-esteem. If you’re experiencing these symptoms, addressing your self-esteem might be a crucial step in your recovery.

7. Do I Struggle with Self-Care?

Self-esteem is closely tied to self-care. If you neglect your physical and emotional well-being because you don’t believe you deserve it, therapy can guide you toward healthier habits.

8. Am I Isolating Myself?

Isolating yourself from friends and family because you feel unworthy of their company is a sign of low self-esteem. Therapy can help you reconnect and build stronger relationships.

9. Do I Have a Negative Self-Image?

Your self-image, the way you see your physical self, is another aspect of self-esteem. If you constantly criticize your appearance, it might be time to work on improving your self-esteem.

When to Seek Self-Esteem Therapy

So, you’ve asked yourself these important questions and found that your self-esteem is in need of a boost. But when should you consider seeking self-esteem therapy? Here are some signs that it might be time:

1. You’ve Tried Self-Help but Aren’t Seeing Results

Self-help techniques, like positive affirmations or self-help books, can be beneficial. However, if you’ve tried them without significant improvement, it may be a sign that professional help is necessary.

2. Your Self-Esteem Is Affecting Your Daily Life

If low self-esteem is interfering with your daily life, such as your work, relationships, or overall happiness, it’s time to consider therapy.

3. You Want to Gain Deeper Self-Understanding

Therapy not only helps boost your self-esteem but also provides a space for self-exploration and understanding. If you’re curious about why you feel the way you do and want to make lasting changes, therapy can be a valuable tool.

4. You’re Ready for Personal Growth

If you’re committed to personal growth and positive change, self-esteem therapy can help you build the foundation you need to thrive.

How Self-Esteem Therapy May Look

Self-esteem therapy is a goal-oriented approach to improving self-esteem. The therapy process may include:

1. Self-Exploration

Therapy sessions are a safe space for you to explore your beliefs, experiences, and emotions that contribute to low self-esteem.

2. Cognitive Behavioral Techniques

Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is often used to challenge and reframe negative thought patterns. You’ll learn to recognize self-critical thoughts and replace them with more healthy and realistic ones.

3. Building Self-Compassion

Learning to be kind and compassionate to yourself is a key component of self-esteem therapy. You’ll develop self-acceptance and self-love.

4. Setting and Achieving Goals

Therapy can help you set and work toward achievable goals, which in turn can boost your confidence and self-esteem.

5. Stress Management

Managing stress and anxiety is often part of self-esteem therapy. Techniques for handling stress can be a game-changer for your self-esteem.

Online Self-Esteem Therapy

If you’re searching for self-esteem therapy, it’s important to know that therapy isn’t limited to in-person sessions. Online therapy is popular and accessible, allowing you to receive the help you need from the comfort of your home. This is especially valuable for young adults who lead busy lives and prefer the flexibility of virtual sessions.

Online self-esteem therapy offers the same benefits as in-person therapy. You’ll work with a licensed therapist who can provide guidance, support, and tools to boost your self-esteem. The convenience of online therapy means you can schedule sessions that fit your timetable and avoid the stress of commuting.

Florida Residents- Reach Out to Me

Improving your self-esteem is a worthwhile endeavor that can have a profound impact on your life. If you’ve found that you’re struggling with self-doubt, negative self-talk, and it’s affecting your overall happiness, seeking self-esteem therapy could be the key to positive change. Remember, self-esteem issues are common, and there’s no need to face them alone. I’m here to help!

If you’re in Florida, you can access my services for online therapy and my new online workshops (wherever you live) to help you on your journey to a happier, more confident you. If you don’t live in Florida and want self-esteem therapy, just search “self-esteem therapy near me.” You can also look on your insurance website for available therapists in your state. Don’t hesitate to reach out for support; you deserve to live a life where self-esteem isn’t a roadblock but a stepping stone to success and fulfillment.

To learn more about the services I offer or to book a phone consultation, use one of these three easy methods: call me at 321-415-0832, fill out the email form below and we’ll set up a 15 minute free consultation call, or click the “Book Online” button and schedule the call yourself. Hope to hear from you soon so we can change your life together.

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