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April 3, 2024

Can Therapy Help my Anxiety?

Anxiety – it’s a common thread that weaves through the fabric of our lives. Whether it’s the looming pressures of work or school, relationships, or the uncertainties of the future, anxiety can grip us tightly, making every step feel like a daunting journey. But fear not, for therapy might just be the key to unlocking the shackles of anxiety and reclaiming control over your life.

Understanding Anxiety vs Stress

Anxiety isn’t just a fleeting feeling of worry or nervousness; it’s a persistent state of unease that can manifest in various ways. From racing thoughts and sweaty palms to panic attacks and avoidance behaviors, anxiety can wear many masks, making it difficult to pinpoint at times. Stress and anxiety are often used interchangeably, but they are distinct experiences with different characteristics:

Stress:

Stress is a response to external pressures or demands that challenge an individual’s ability to cope effectively with their environment.
It is typically a short-term reaction to specific events or situations, such as deadlines, exams, or conflicts.
Stress can be both positive (eustress), motivating individuals to take action and achieve goals, and negative (distress), causing feelings of tension, overwhelm, or frustration.
Physiologically, stress triggers the body’s “fight or flight” response, leading to the release of hormones like adrenaline and cortisol to prepare for potential threats.
While short-term stress is a normal part of life, chronic or excessive stress can have detrimental effects on physical and mental health, leading to issues such as fatigue, muscle tension, headaches, and difficulty concentrating.

Anxiety:

Anxiety, on the other hand, is a broader and more pervasive emotional state characterized by persistent worry, fear, or apprehension about future events or uncertainties.
Unlike stress, which is typically tied to specific stressors, anxiety can arise without a clear trigger and may persist even when the stressor is removed.
Anxiety is often accompanied by physical symptoms such as restlessness, muscle tension, rapid heartbeat, sweating, and gastrointestinal discomfort.
It can range from mild to severe and may interfere with daily activities, social interactions, and overall quality of life.
Anxiety disorders, such as generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), panic disorder, social anxiety disorder, and phobias, involve excessive and debilitating levels of anxiety that may require professional intervention.

Identifying the Right Therapist

Now that we’ve familiarized ourselves with anxiety, the next step is finding the right therapist to guide us through the labyrinth of our minds. Here are a few questions to consider when on the hunt for the a great fit in an anxiety therapist:

What’s Their Specialization? Look for therapists who specialize in anxiety disorders or have extensive experience in treating anxiety-related issues. Their expertise can make a world of difference in your therapeutic journey.
Do They Offer Evidence-Based Treatments? Evidence-based therapies, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), have shown remarkable success in treating anxiety. Make sure your therapist is well-versed in these scientifically proven techniques.
Are They a Good Fit? Trust and rapport are crucial components of therapy. Take the time to gauge whether you feel comfortable opening up to your therapist and whether their approach resonates with you.
What’s Their Availability? Life can be hectic, especially for young adults juggling multiple responsibilities. Find a therapist whose schedule aligns with yours to ensure consistency in your therapy sessions.

Statistics: The Promise of Therapy

You might be wondering, “Does therapy really work for anxiety?” The short answer: yes, it does. According to studies, therapy has been shown to significantly reduce symptoms of anxiety and improve overall quality of life.

Research from the American Psychological Association suggests that approximately 75% of individuals who undergo psychotherapy experience noticeable improvements in their anxiety symptoms. The frequency of therapy sessions can also impact success rates, with more frequent sessions correlating to higher rates of improvement.

The Rise of Telehealth

The landscape of therapy is evolving, paving the way for greater accessibility and convenience. Enter telehealth – the virtual bridge connecting therapists and clients from the comfort of their own homes within the same state. Here’s why telehealth is an ideal solution for addressing anxiety:

Convenience: Say goodbye to long commutes and scheduling conflicts. With telehealth, therapy sessions are just a click away, allowing you to seek support without disrupting your daily routine.
Accessibility: Telehealth breaks down barriers to mental healthcare, particularly for those living in remote areas or facing mobility challenges. Now, anyone with an internet connection can access quality therapy services.
Comfort and Privacy: For individuals grappling with social anxiety or discomfort in traditional therapy settings, telehealth offers a safe space to engage in therapy from the familiar confines of their home environment.

Take the First Step

Therapy holds tremendous promise for alleviating the burden of your anxiety and restoring a sense of balance to your life. Whether you opt for traditional face-to-face therapy or embrace the convenience of telehealth, the first step towards healing begins with a single decision – to seek help.

If you’re ready to embark on your journey towards a brighter, decreased-anxiety tomorrow, I invite you to learn more about my individual online therapy and workshops for how I can support you on your path to wellness. Together, we can navigate the twists and turns of anxiety and emerge stronger on the other side.

Click the yellow “Book Online” button above for your free 15 minute phone consultation
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February 1, 2024

Starting Therapy with Success

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Continuing the Journey from “Is Therapy For Me?” (last week’s post)

Welcome back, readers! Last week, we delved into the crucial aspects of deciding whether therapy is the right path for you in my blog titled “Is Therapy For Me?” We explored the nuances of recognizing when it’s time to seek therapy, addressing concerns about entering therapy, understanding the benefits, exploring types of therapy, and finding the best therapist fit. Today, we’re taking the next step on your therapeutic journey. This post is all about getting started successfully, ensuring that you embark on this path with confidence and purpose. So, let’s go!

Ways to Find Therapists

Before you start the process of finding the right therapist, it’s important to know where to look. Here are three effective ways:

Word of Mouth: Personal recommendations can be gold. Reach out to friends, family, or colleagues who have had positive experiences with therapists. Their insights can guide you toward therapists who may be a good fit for you, but remember, just because someone is good for one person doesn’t mean they’ll be good for another. You know how you can be similar to friends, yet so different? Think of it like that. YOU need your best fit.
Online Databases: Numerous online platforms curate lists of therapists, complete with profiles and reviews. Websites like Psychology Today can help you explore a variety of therapists and their specialties. And as for reviews, sometimes it can make or break your decision, so take a second to read them, even on general sites like Google because you never know where someone left their thoughts.
Insurance: If you have health insurance, check their provider directory (usually under “behavioral health”). This can narrow down your options based on therapists who accept your insurance (in your state), making the financial aspect more manageable.

Now you may have 2-3 good therapist leads. So what do you do next?

How Therapists May Begin: A Variety of Approaches

Once you’ve compiled a list of potential therapists, the next step is reaching out. Therapists often initiate the process in several ways:

Consultation Call: Some therapists offer a free initial consultation call. This is an opportunity for you to briefly discuss your concerns, ask questions, and get a sense of the therapist’s approach and personality. It’s a taste of the therapeutic journey you may take together.
Straight to Intake: Other therapists may prefer diving right into the intake process. This involves scheduling a full session (usually an hour) to gather detailed information about you, your history, and your current challenges. It’s a more immediate approach.
Scheduling Online or by Phone: Many therapists provide the convenience of online scheduling or booking appointments over the phone. This can be a straightforward way to secure your first session without the need for a preliminary call. Sometimes you schedule the consultation call this way as well, which then leads to scheduling the intake session at a time and date agreed upon.

Make sense? OK, great. Let’s keep going.

Questions to Ask Yourself Before Your First Contact

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Preparing for your first therapy contact involves introspection. Ask yourself questions to gather your thoughts, like what your intent for therapy is (aka goals) and what makes you feel able to open up to someone.

Timing: Asking yourself why you’re seeking therapy right now is important. Sometimes a therapist may even ask you this when you speak. There’s a pressing reason, or a motivation, for reaching out to a therapist at this point in your life. The answer can be extremely helpful on your journey in therapy.
Specific Concerns: What issues do you want to address in therapy? Anything weighing on you for months or years? Something that just happened? Anywhere you feel stuck? How’s your life being affected (relationships, school, etc.)? Look for a therapist who specializes in your need.
Goals: What do you aim to achieve through therapy? Sometimes the intent is broad (feeling better) and sometimes specific (being able to focus on schoolwork for 1 hour).
Comfort Level: Are you comfortable with the gender, personality, or cultural background of your therapist? What mode of therapy do you prefer (online, in-person, group)? If in person, what’s your preferred location? What frequency of therapy do you want (weekly, biweekly, etc.)? What frequency can your budget allow?

Great stuff, huh?

Unlocking the Benefits of Online Therapy

Since I offer online therapy for Florida residents, I want to tell you more about the benefits of it, no matter what state you live in.

1. Convenience and Flexibility

Online therapy eliminates geographical constraints, allowing you to connect with a therapist from the comfort of your own space. Whether you’re at home, in the office, or even traveling (within state), therapy sessions become more flexible, accommodating your lifestyle and reducing the logistical hurdles of in-person appointments.

2. Access to a Diverse Pool of Therapists

One of the key advantages of online therapy is the ability to choose from a broad spectrum of therapists regardless of their physical location. This means you can find a therapist who not only specializes in your specific concerns but also aligns with your cultural background, language preferences, or unique needs.

3. Reduced Stigma and Increased Privacy

For some, the stigma associated with seeking therapy can be a barrier. Online therapy provides a level of privacy that traditional in-person sessions may not offer. The sessions can be conducted from the privacy of your own space, offering a sense of security and reducing the fear of being seen entering a therapist’s office.

4. Time and Cost Efficiency

Online therapy often comes with cost savings compared to traditional therapy. With no need for commuting or additional expenses related to an office setting, you can allocate your resources more efficiently. Additionally, the time saved from travel can be invested directly into self-care or other commitments.

5. Consistent Support, Anytime, Anywhere

Life doesn’t adhere to a 9-to-5 schedule, and neither do the challenges we face. Online therapy provides the flexibility to connect with your therapist during evenings or weekends, ensuring consistent support when you need it most. This accessibility can be a game-changer for those with unpredictable schedules or time zone differences.

6. Comfort and Familiarity

Being in your own environment during therapy can foster a sense of comfort and familiarity. This relaxed setting can encourage open and honest communication, allowing you to delve deeper into your thoughts and emotions without the potential distractions or discomfort associated with a new and unfamiliar office space.

See, the benefits online therapy offers make it a valuable option for young adults seeking a convenient and effective path to personal growth and well-being. As you consider your therapeutic journey, exploring the possibilities of online therapy may open new doors to success and self-discovery.

Your Journey Begins Here

Embarking on the therapeutic journey is an empowering step. By asking the right questions and actively seeking a therapist who aligns with your needs, you’re setting the stage for a transformative experience. Remember, therapy is a collaborative process, and finding the right fit is key to its success.

I hope this post helped you and maybe a friend (I always want my posts shared so spread the knowledge!). If you’re ready to take the next step for your successful future or have additional questions about the therapeutic process, I’m here to help. Explore my services and let’s start this journey together.

Contact Me in 4 Easy Ways (for therapy):

Click the yellow “Book Online” button above for your free 15 minute phone consultation
If you have insurance, schedule the call through Headway
Fill out the form below for your call (I’ll contact you by secure voice and/or text to schedule our consultation time)
Call me at 321-415-0832

***Must be living in Florida to receive my therapy services. It’s OK if your permanent address is in another state and you attend college in Florida!

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January 24, 2024

Is Therapy for Me?

Deciding whether therapy is the right path for you is no simple task. The journey to seeking help for mental health concerns is often shrouded in uncertainty and contemplation. As a young adult, life is rife with transitions, challenges, and self-discovery, making the decision to pursue therapy a pivotal moment. In this blog post, I’ll explore the intricacies of this decision-making process, addressing key topics to guide you through the maze of considerations.

Is It Time to See a Therapist?

The first step in deciding whether to have therapy is recognizing when it might be time. Therapy is not reserved for crises alone; it’s a proactive tool for improving overall well-being. Here’s some examples for you to consider.

Persistent Feelings of Overwhelm: If you find yourself consistently overwhelmed by life’s demands and unable to cope effectively, therapy can provide tools to manage stress and build resilience.

Decline in Quality of Life: A noticeable decline in your overall quality of life, affecting various aspects such as work, relationships, or personal well-being, may indicate the need for therapeutic support.

Difficulty Coping with Concerns: When coping with a particular concern consumes a significant amount of your time and mental energy, therapy can offer constructive strategies to manage and navigate these challenges.

Changes in Sleep Patterns or Appetite: Noticeable disruptions in sleep or changes in appetite can be signs of emotional distress. Therapy can help explore the root causes and develop coping mechanisms.

Intense or Prolonged Emotional States: If you experience intense emotions like sadness, anxiety, or anger that persist over an extended period, therapy can provide a supportive space to explore and manage these emotions.

Lack of Enjoyment in Previously Enjoyable Activities: If activities that once brought joy or fulfillment now seem uninteresting or unfulfilling, therapy can help uncover and address the underlying factors contributing to this shift.

Negative Thought Patterns: Persistent negative thought patterns or self-talk can impact your self-esteem and overall mental well-being. Therapy can assist in challenging and reframing these thoughts.

Feeling Stuck or Unfulfilled: If you feel stuck in life, unable to make decisions or find fulfillment, therapy can offer guidance in exploring your values, goals, and aspirations.

Possible Concerns About Seeing a Therapist

Concerns about therapy is natural. Common worries include the fear of being judged, the stigma surrounding mental health (especially due to your culture and family messages), or concerns about the therapeutic process itself. It’s essential to understand that therapy is a collaborative and confidential space where you can explore your thoughts and emotions without judgment. Addressing these concerns openly with a potential therapist is a vital part of the therapeutic journey. Here’s more for you to consider, with a little help to combat those worries.

Uncertainty About the Therapeutic Process: Concern: Not knowing what to expect during therapy sessions or how the process works. Help: Discussing the therapeutic process with the therapist during initial sessions and asking questions to gain clarity. I offer information about my process on my website and talk to the client in my free consultation call about what to expect with me.

Vulnerability and Opening Up: Concern: Feeling vulnerable about sharing personal thoughts and experiences with a stranger. Help: Building trust gradually with the therapist and understanding that therapy is a confidential and safe space.

Perceived Weakness or Failure: Concern: Viewing therapy as an admission of weakness or failure. Help: Recognizing that seeking therapy is a proactive step towards personal growth and self-improvement…in other words, strength.

Financial Considerations: Concern: Worries about the cost of therapy and whether it is a sustainable investment. Help: Exploring options such as insurance coverage, sliding scale fees, or discussing financial concerns openly with the therapist. I take insurance and even have a college student rate, for example.

Addressing these concerns openly can help demystify the therapy experience and alleviate apprehensions.

Benefits of Therapy

Let’s get to the good stuff! Therapy offers a lot of benefits, extending beyond addressing immediate concerns. Here’s a few of the many benefits.

Transformative Outcomes Include:

Improved self-awareness: Understanding your thoughts and emotions on a deeper level.
Enhanced coping strategies: Developing effective ways to deal with life’s challenges.
Healthier relationships: Improving communication skills and fostering meaningful connections.
Overall well-being: Gaining tools for a more fulfilling and balanced life.

Therapy offers a space for personal growth and positive change beyond immediate concerns.

Types of Therapy

Therapy comes in various forms, each catering to different needs and preferences. From cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) to psychodynamic therapy, understanding the nuances of each can help you choose what aligns best with your goals. Each approach has its pros and cons; some may focus on short-term problem-solving, while others delve deeper into underlying issues. It’s about finding the right fit for you.

Search “types of therapy” and see what feels right for you, then look for therapists who work from those models. Most therapists integrate a few theories, however. For example, my basis is CBT but I also use a few other theories like Expressive Arts Therapy (using art and music). Understanding therapy types allows you to choose a method that aligns with your preferences and goals.

Finding the Right Therapist

This leads to finding a great fit. The right therapist is a crucial aspect of the therapeutic process. If you’ve had a less-than-ideal experience in the past, don’t be discouraged; each therapist is unique.

Tips for a Successful Search:

Consider your preferences: Gender, therapeutic approach, specialization. Be open to those you haven’t experienced but always go with your preference and your gut. Ah, yet another reason that consultation call is important!
Utilize online platforms, referrals, or directories to explore potential therapists. You can view therapists in many ways. A favorite of mine is Psychology Today. Look at reviews on Google as well!
Don’t be discouraged by past experiences; each therapist is unique. Seriously, I promise. I’ve even had a, let’s say, negative interaction for myself once. Thankfully, I knew there were great therapists out there and tried again. The next one was amazing!

Take the First Step Towards Your Well-being

I hope this post helps you with deciding whether therapy is right for you. It’s a personal journey, and it’s okay to take the time needed for this important decision.

If you’re interested in learning more about how I can support you on your journey, I invite you to explore my online individual therapy (just make sure you live in Florida). I also offer online workshops for a variety of needs, like stress management and ADHD.

Remember, your mental health matters, and seeking help is a sign of strength. Is therapy for you? The answer lies in your hands, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.

Contact Me in 4 Easy Ways (for therapy):

Click the yellow “Book Online” button above for your free 15 minute phone consultation
If you have insurance, schedule the call through Headway
Fill out the form below for your call (I’ll contact you by secure voice and/or text to schedule our consultation time)
Call me at 321-415-0832

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January 10, 2024January 9, 2024

Finding Simplicity This Year

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Embracing Simplicity in a Chaotic World

Life can often resemble a whirlwind in our fast-paced society. As young adults, navigating through the maze of responsibilities, relationships, and personal growth, it’s understandable to desire simplicity to finding peace and stability amidst the chaos, especially if you’re starting a new college semester this week.

Simplicity serves as an anchor to us, offering a sense of calm and balance. It’s about finding clarity amid the noise and allowing ourselves to prioritize what truly matters. So, how do we begin? I’m here to help get you started.

Assessing Your Desired Life: Reflective Questions for Clarity

Have you wondered if you’re living the life you want, the one that you envisioned long ago? Maybe it is, maybe it’s not at all, or maybe it’s in the middle, just needing adjustment. No matter where you are, there’s room for growth and change, as long as you want it and make effort. Here’s some starter questions for you in a simple (get it?) list.

What does an ideal life look like for you this year and beyond?
Now what’s realistic and towards that ideal?
How do you envision simplicity contributing to your peace and stability?
What activities or elements in your life currently cause stress or overwhelm?

Of course, you can brainstorm many more jumping off questions, but hopefully your wheels are turning…so let’s keep going.

Checking Alignment: Does Your Life Reflect Your Aspirations?

Reflect on your present life a little more now. Does it align with vision? Consider your relationships, career/major, personal growth, and hobbies. Do they resonate with your values and aspirations? How are your physical and mental health presently? Ah, that’s really important. Let’s look further into those aspects of your life.

Physical and Mental Well-being: Assessing Now and Setting Goals

Where do you stand in terms of physical and mental health today? Think of your energy level and feeling good vs weight for physical health.

Do you wake up feeling rested?
Are you able to sleep through the night?
Are you satisfied with your food choices throughout the day?
Do you have enough energy to be social? Do your hobby? Get through your list of responsibilities?

OK, so are you nurturing your well-being adequately? Envision it, with the addition of mental health now. Hey, we’re one whole person so we need to look at both (and can look at even more if we really wanted to dive in!). Here’s some mental health questions to ask yourself:

Are you spending time for yourself?
What’s your stress level?
Check on your mood- sadness, satisfaction, etc.
Is there a sense of burnout?

After taking these questions into consideration, what do you think? Are you on track for how you want your life to be? If not, how can you bridge the gap between your current status and your desired state? Read on!

Starting Small: Practical Steps Toward Simplicity

Simplicity thrives on small, achievable changes. Maybe you want to begin by decluttering your physical space (a tidy environment can foster mental clarity). Establish a daily routine that promotes balance, incorporating activities that bring joy and relaxation. How about making sure you do a morning skin care routine or take a short walk? Anything that works for you is what works. Try not to follow another person’s style. Be you.

You can also end your day with certain small activities. Maybe it’s integrating in mindfulness practices like meditation or a brief gratitude journaling session. Or embrace minimalism by consciously purchasing only what you need, reducing unnecessary clutter and stress. The possibilities and ideas are endless. But what you want to do most of all is be consistent.

Examples of Sustaining Simplicity: Making it Stick

Maintaining simplicity requires consistency. Identify habits or practices that support your quest for simplicity. Here’s some ideas:

Make a schedule- develop rewards when you stick to it
Set days for a digital detox- only allow yourself socials on 4 days a week, for example
Set boundaries in relationships- stay on track for no phone communication before 9 AM, for example (that can be YOUR time)
Have an accountability partner who’s also creating a simple life- check in every few days and talk about how you can better stay on track if needed

Creating a support system can also help. Surround yourself with like-minded individuals who value simplicity, sharing experiences and encouraging one another’s journey towards a more balanced lifestyle.

Why Telehealth is an Ideal Support System

You may want a little extra help to achieve the life of your dreams. Sometimes that means help from a mental health professional, like me. I offer telehealth, individual sessions online for Florida residents (even if you go to college in Florida but are from another state- you just have to live here/be here for sessions).

Telehealth offers a convenient solution to prioritize your mental health. Access therapy from the comfort of your space, eliminating commuting stress and allowing flexibility in scheduling sessions. You can squeeze in therapy between classes and other demands.

Remember, simplicity isn’t about drastic change; it’s about intentional living aligned with your values. If you seek support in this journey, I invite you to explore my psychotherapy services or any in your state. If you aren’t ready for therapy, maybe try something less anxiety-provoking, like a workshop. I offer online workshops to people who live anywhere, including ones for ADHD and well-being.

Finding simplicity this year involves introspection, small adjustments, and prioritizing mental health. Here’s to a year filled with clarity, balance, and contentment. Let’s go!

Contact Me in 4 Easy Ways (for therapy):

Click the yellow “Book Online” button above for your free 15 minute phone consultation
If you have insurance, schedule the call through Headway
Fill out the form below for your call (I’ll contact you by secure voice and/or text to schedule our consultation time)
Call me at 321-415-0832

***Must be living in Florida to receive my therapy services. It’s OK if your permanent address is in another state and you attend college in Florida!

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November 9, 2023

Personal Development Therapy: Nurturing Your True Self

Personal growth and development is a journey that we all embark on as we grow into and in adulthood. It’s a path of self-discovery, transformation, and self-improvement, and it encompasses various aspects of our lives. From our identity and values to our career and social interactions, personal development therapy can be a powerful tool to help you find your true self and live a fulfilling life, especially as a young adult.

In this post, I’ll explore what personal development therapy may include and how it can benefit you. I’ll also discuss how to identify whether therapy can help you in your personal development journey and provide tips for finding the right therapist to guide you through this transformative process.

What Does Personal Development Therapy Include?

Personal development therapy addresses a wide range of areas in your life, each contributing to your overall well-being and happiness. Let’s break down some of the key aspects it can help you explore:

Identity (Values, Beliefs, Interests, Purpose): Your identity is a fundamental part of who you are. Personal development therapy can assist you in understanding your values, beliefs, interests, and life purpose. It provides a safe space to explore your core self, helping you align your actions and decisions with your true values.
Gender and Sexuality (Coming Out, Questioning, Identity Confirming): Navigating questions about your gender and sexuality can be a challenging journey. Personal development therapy offers support and guidance as you explore your identity, providing a non-judgmental space to discuss coming out, questioning, and confirming your identity.
Spirituality: Whether you have religious beliefs or a sense of spirituality that doesn’t fit into traditional categories, personal development therapy can help you explore and deepen your spiritual connection. It allows you to find meaning and purpose in your life through a lens that resonates with you.
Career and College Major: Deciding on a career path or college major can be a daunting task. Personal development therapy can assist you in aligning your skills, interests, and passions with your educational and career goals. It can also help you overcome challenges in your professional journey.
Social Growth (Communication Skills, Relationships): Developing effective communication skills and nurturing healthy relationships are vital for personal growth. Therapy can provide you with tools and strategies to enhance your social interactions and build stronger connections with others.
Life Functioning (Time Management, Organization): Managing your time and staying organized are essential life skills. Personal development therapy can help you improve these areas and more, ensuring that you are better equipped to handle life’s demands and responsibilities.

Is Personal Development Therapy Right for You?

Now, you might be wondering if personal development therapy is right for you. Here are some questions to consider:

Do you feel stuck or unfulfilled in your life, but you’re not sure why?
Are you struggling with issues related to your identity, gender, sexuality, or spirituality?
Are you facing difficulties in your career or education, such as feeling lost or unfulfilled in your current path?
Do you find it challenging to connect with others or communicate effectively in your personal and professional relationships?
Are you struggling with time management and organization, making it difficult to juggle your responsibilities?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, personal development therapy might be just what you need to embark on a transformative journey towards self-discovery and personal growth.

How Personal Development Therapy Can Help You

Personal development therapy offers a multitude of benefits for young adults:

Gaining awareness and insight into identity (values, beliefs, life goals, your image of the future in your best self)
Exploring passion, fulfilment, purpose, interests, strengths
LGBTQIA+ support (clarifying your gender and/or sexuality identity and expression, pronouns you feel comfortable using, support in the community, freedom in identity not based on anyone else’s label)
Stress, anxiety, and depression management (coping skills such as healthy self-soothing, relaxation, mindfulness)
Decreasing barriers, perceived and realistic
Life skills training (planning ahead, scheduling, organization tools)

Finding a Great Therapist for Young Adults

Finding the right therapist is crucial for a successful personal development journey. Here are some tips on how to find a therapist who can best meet your needs:

Research: Start by doing some research online. Look for therapists in your area or state if seeking online therapy, like I offer for Florida residents, who specialize in personal development or related areas like identity, relationships, or career counseling.
Credentials: Ensure that the therapist is licensed in their field. This ensures they have the necessary training and experience to help you.
Specialization: Consider therapists who specialize in areas that are most relevant to your personal development goals. For example, if you’re struggling with identity or gender issues, look for a therapist with expertise in these areas.
Initial Consultation: Many therapists offer a free initial consultation. Take advantage of this to get a feel for the therapist’s style and determine if you’re a good fit. This is why I offer a free 15 minute consultation call.
Comfort and Connection: It’s important to feel comfortable and have a strong connection with your therapist. The therapeutic relationship is a key factor in the success of your personal development journey.

Let’s Go!

In your journey of personal development, remember that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Personal development therapy can be a valuable tool to help you navigate the complexities of life, explore your identity, and become the best version of yourself.

If you’re a young adult looking for personal development therapy near you, take the first step towards a brighter future. Reach out to a therapist who can guide you on this transformative journey. Whether you’re struggling with identity, relationships, career choices, or any other aspect of your life, there is support available to help you thrive.

Don’t hesitate to learn more about my services and how I can assist you in your personal development journey. Talk soon!

Contact Me in 4 Easy Ways:

Click the yellow “Book Online” button above for your free 15 minute phone consultation
If you have insurance, schedule the call through Headway
Fill out the form below for your call (I’ll contact you by secure voice and/or text to schedule our consultation time)
Call me at 321-415-0832

***Must be living in Florida to receive my therapy services. It’s OK if your permanent address is in another state and you attend college in Florida!

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Also, take a glance at my online workshops to see if any would be helpful for your concern.

If you need immediate assistance, please call 911 or call/text with the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988. For LGBTQIA+ specific support, visit https://www.thetrevorproject.org/.

November 2, 2023November 2, 2023

Managing Life’s Twists and Turns with Adjustment and Life Transitions Therapy

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Life is full of twists and turns, and we often find ourselves facing major adjustments and transitions that can be both exciting and challenging. Whether it’s moving to college, graduating, starting a new job, changing careers, experiencing relationship shifts, or moving to a new place, these moments in life can bring a mix of emotions and uncertainties. As a young adult, you may be in the midst of one or more of these adjustments, and it’s essential to recognize that seeking help and support is a sign of strength. In this blog post, I’ll explore how adjustment and life transitions therapy can be a valuable resource for young adults during these critical periods. I’ll also discuss how therapy can help you manage stress, offer tips for finding therapy in your state, and delve into the benefits of telehealth as a flexible mode of therapy.

Understanding Adjustment and Life Transitions Therapy

Adjustment and life transitions therapy is a specialized form of psychotherapy that aims to help individuals cope with significant life changes and the associated stressors. This type of therapy can provide young adults with the tools and strategies they need to navigate the challenges and uncertainties that come with major life adjustments. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed, anxious, or even lost during such transitions, but therapy can provide the guidance and support needed to ease the journey.

How Therapy Can Help During Life Transitions

Life transitions, such as the examples mentioned earlier, can bring about a wide range of emotions and stressors. Here’s how therapy can be beneficial:

Emotional Support: During significant life changes, it’s common to experience heightened emotions and stress, and sometimes even physical responses such as a racing heart. A therapist can provide a safe space for you to express your feelings, fears, and concerns without judgment.
Coping Strategies: Therapists can equip you with effective coping strategies to manage stress, anxiety, depression, and any other issues that arise which can be triggered by life transitions. Learning to handle these emotions can greatly improve your overall well-being.
Decision-Making: Transition periods often require important decisions. Therapy can assist you in making informed and balanced choices, reducing the uncertainty associated with these decisions.
Building Resilience: Life transitions can be seen as an opportunity for personal growth and resilience. A therapist can help you harness these experiences for self-improvement and development.
Communication Skills: In the context of relationship changes, therapy can improve your communication and social skills, aiding in resolving conflicts and maintaining healthy relationships.

Finding the Right Therapist in Your State

If you’re considering adjustment and life transitions therapy, it’s essential to find the right therapist for your needs. Here are some tips to help you in your search:

Seek Referrals: Ask friends, family, or colleagues for recommendations. Personal referrals can be a valuable way to find a therapist who aligns with your needs.
Online Directories: Numerous online directories and platforms allow you to search for therapists in your state, offering detailed profiles and areas of specialization. I’m listed in Psychology Today and GoodTherapy.org, to name a few reputable directories you can view.
Insurance Coverage: If you have health insurance, check your provider’s website for a list of covered (in network) therapists in your area. Also, therapists will often list the insurance they take on their website and in directories.
Professional Associations: Many states have professional associations for therapists. They often provide directories of licensed professionals. For example, I’m listed on the National Certified Counselors directory.
Consultation: Most therapists offer a free initial consultation. Us therapists want to make sure we’re a good fit for each other. Take advantage of this to get a sense of whether you feel comfortable and supported by the therapist.

Remember that finding the right therapist is a personal process. It’s crucial to choose someone with whom you feel comfortable, safe, and understood.

The Flexibility of Telehealth

In the digital age, therapy has evolved to become more accessible and convenient through telehealth services so I want to tell you a little about it. Telehealth, or online therapy, allows you to receive professional help from the comfort of your home. Here’s why it’s an attractive option for young adults facing life transitions:

Convenience: Online therapy eliminates the need to travel to a physical office. This means no commute, no time lost in traffic, and more flexible scheduling to fit your busy life.
Privacy: You can participate in therapy sessions from the privacy of your own space, which may make you feel more at ease and willing to open up.
Accessibility: Telehealth opens up a broader range of therapists to choose from since you’re not limited to those in your immediate geographic area. You can find a therapist that truly meets your needs in your state.
COVID-19 Considerations: The ongoing pandemic has highlighted the importance of remote services for health and well-being. Telehealth offers a safer health alternative during these uncertain times.
Consistency: It can be easier to maintain a consistent therapy schedule when you don’t have to factor in travel time.

A Call to Action for You

If you’re a young adult navigating the complexities of life transitions, remember that seeking help is a courageous and wise choice. Adjustment and life transitions therapy can provide you with the support and guidance you need to face these changes with confidence.

I specialize in this type of therapy and am here to assist you on your journey, including telehealth sessions and online workshops (only Florida residents for therapy with me but anyone in the USA for the workshops!). My online workshops on well-being and stress management are designed with young adults in mind, and they can provide you with valuable tools for coping during these pivotal life moments.

Don’t hesitate to reach out and learn more about the services I offer. Together, we can navigate the path of life transitions, making it a journey of growth, resilience, and self-discovery. Remember, you’re not alone, and there is help available to make your journey smoother and more fulfilling.

To learn more about the services I offer or to book a phone consultation, use one of these three easy methods: call me at 321-415-0832, fill out the email form below and we’ll set up a 15 minute free consultation call, or click the “Book Online” button and schedule the call yourself.

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October 27, 2023

Navigating Academic Concerns with a Therapist’s Help

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Life’s journey through school can be filled with ups and downs, and sometimes, you may find yourself facing academic concerns that seem insurmountable. Whether you’re a college student battling exam anxiety, struggling with time management or procrastination, or dealing with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) related academic challenges, you’re not alone. Academic concerns can affect all of us, but there’s help available through academic concerns therapy.

In this blog post, I’ll dive into the world of academic concerns and guide you on how to find the best therapist to address your unique challenges. I’m here to support you on your path to academic success and personal development (and if you live in Florida I can be your therapist!). So, let’s get started!

Understanding Academic Concerns

Academic concerns come in various forms, and they can manifest differently for each individual. Let’s take a closer look at some common examples:

1. Test Anxiety

Test anxiety is a familiar companion for many students. The uneasiness and nervousness that precedes a major exam can hinder your performance, causing physical symptoms like sweating, a racing heart, and difficulty concentrating.

2. Time Management Struggles

Balancing a busy academic schedule with other life commitments can be challenging. If you find yourself constantly battling time management issues, including procrastination, it can negatively impact your academic performance.

3. Perfectionism

Perfectionism can be both a driving force and a source of stress. While it may motivate you to aim for high standards, it can also lead to self-criticism, excessive stress, and burnout.

4. ADHD and Academic Challenges

For some people, academic concerns are closely intertwined with ADHD. This neurodevelopmental concern can make it difficult to focus, organize tasks, and manage time effectively, all of which are essential for academic success.

These are just a few examples of academic concerns that young adults might encounter. The good news is that there’s a path to overcoming these challenges with the help of academic concerns therapy.

What to Look for in Therapists who Specialize in Academic Concerns Therapy

When seeking therapy to address your academic concerns, it’s crucial to find a therapist who specializes in this area. Here’s a list of questions to help you identify the right therapist for your unique needs:

1. Are They Qualified?

Before starting therapy, ensure that the therapist is licensed in the state you live in and that they have experience in your area of concern. You can also receive quality therapy from someone in training (under supervision of a therapist who’s licensed).

2. Specialization in Academic Concerns

Look for a therapist who specializes in academic concerns (Do they have work experience in school settings? How many years?). These professionals have a deeper understanding of the specific challenges you’re facing and can provide tailored solutions.

3. Approach and Techniques

Every therapist has a unique approach and set of techniques. Do you prefer a cognitive-behavioral (CBT) approach, a psychodynamic approach, or something else? Find a therapist whose methods align with your preferences.

4. Compatibility

Feeling comfortable and at ease with your therapist is necessary for a successful therapeutic journey. Therapy is a collaborative process, so it’s essential to establish a good rapport with your therapist. Consider scheduling an initial consultation to evaluate compatibility. That’s why I offer a free 15 minute phone call with future clients.

5. Reviews and Recommendations

Seek out reviews and recommendations from friends, family members, or online sources. Hearing about others’ positive therapy experiences can provide valuable insights into a potential therapist’s effectiveness.

6. Flexibility and Accessibility

Consider practical factors like the therapist’s location, office hours, and whether they offer online sessions. Accessibility needs to be pretty easy for you, especially if you have a busy academic schedule.

7. Cost and Insurance

Therapy is an investment in your well-being, so it’s essential to discuss fees, insurance coverage, and payment options with potential therapists.

8. Goals and Expectations

What are your goals for therapy? Discuss your objectives with potential therapists and see if their approach aligns with what you hope to achieve.

Now that you have a clear set of questions to guide your search for the right academic concerns therapist, let’s focus on a resource for those in Florida seeking support for academic concerns, including ADHD. (Spoiler alert…it’s me!)

Florida Academic Concerns Therapy Services

If you’re a young adult in Florida, you’re in the right place! I offer a range of therapy services tailored to address your academic concerns. Whether you’re struggling with test anxiety, time management, procrastination, perfectionism, or the challenges associated with ADHD, I’m here to help.

Who Am I?

I’m a licensed and board certified therapist with extensive experience in working with young adults facing academic challenges. My career has always taken place in schools, from age 4 and up, with the last 10 years in a university counseling center. One of my specializations is in academic concerns, including ADHD, and I’m committed to providing a safe and supportive environment for you to explore and overcome your concerns.

How Can I Help You?

My base therapeutic approach is client-centered, meaning that I tailor my techniques to your unique needs. We’ll work together to identify the root causes of your academic concerns and develop practical strategies to conquer them. I also use CBT and other theories to help you on the road to success, including, if appropriate and desired, artistic methods (art, music…).

Online Workshops for ADHD (and Emotion Management)

In addition to one-on-one online therapy sessions for Florida residents, I offer online workshops specifically designed for managing ADHD. These workshops are open to anyone in the USA, not just those in Florida. ADHD can significantly impact your academic performance, and these workshops provide valuable tools and insights for dealing with ADHD-related challenges.

Don’t let academic concerns hold you back from achieving your full potential. Take the first step toward a brighter academic future by reaching out for support.

Let’s Talk Soon

Academic concerns are a natural part of the young adult journey, but they don’t have to define your academic experience. By finding the right academic concerns therapist, you can gain the tools and insights needed to overcome challenges and succeed in your academic pursuits.

Reach out to me to learn more about my online Florida therapy services and online workshops for ADHD. Together, we can unlock your potential and conquer those academic concerns. Your academic success is within reach, waiting for you to seize it!

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October 19, 2023

Boosting Your Self-Esteem for a Better Life

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Have you ever thought about your self-esteem? I’m sure you have. So, is it at the level you want for your life? Can it be better? Healthier? Well, let’s talk about understanding how self-esteem can impact your life and why it’s important for you to consider seeking help if you feel that your self-esteem needs a boost. In this blog post, I’ll explore the concept of self-esteem, its effects on various aspects of your life, and how to determine if self-esteem therapy is the right path for you.

What is Self-Esteem?

Self-esteem is the way you perceive and value yourself; the belief you hold about your worth and abilities. This perception plays a pivotal role in your overall well-being and how you navigate life. When your self-esteem is healthy, you’re more likely to make positive life choices, pursue your dreams, and develop healthier relationships. Conversely, low self-esteem can hinder your personal and professional growth, leading to a variety of concerns including self-doubt, anxiety, and a less fulfilling life.

But guess what! Self-esteem isn’t static; it can change over time and in response to various life experiences. It’s like a plant that needs nurturing and care to grow. Fortunately, there are ways to improve your self-esteem, and one of the most effective ways to do that is through self-esteem therapy.

Is Self-Esteem Therapy Right for You?

Before you embark on your journey to improved self-esteem, it’s important to ask yourself some questions. These can help you determine whether you could benefit from self-esteem therapy. Remember, self-esteem issues are more common than you might think, and there’s no shame in seeking help. Here are some questions to consider:

1. Do I Constantly Doubt Myself?

One of the telltale signs of low self-esteem is a persistent self-doubt. If you find yourself questioning your abilities, second-guessing your decisions, or feeling incapable, it might be time to seek help.

2. Am I Overly Self-Critical?

Do you often criticize yourself harshly for the smallest mistakes or imperfections? High levels of self-criticism can erode your self-esteem and overall well-being.

3. Does Rejection or Criticism Devastate Me?

How do you handle criticism or rejection? If you find that even minor criticism or rejection sends you spiraling into self-loathing or despair, it’s a sign that your self-esteem might need a boost.

4. Am I Afraid to Pursue My Goals?

Low self-esteem can hinder your ability to set and achieve goals. If you often avoid pursuing your dreams because you don’t believe in yourself, therapy can help you regain your confidence.

5. Are My Relationships Suffering?

Low self-esteem can strain your relationships. If you find it difficult to trust others, express your needs, or maintain healthy boundaries, it’s worth considering therapy.

6. Is My Mental Health Affected?

Mental health issues such as anxiety and depression often coexist with low self-esteem. If you’re experiencing these symptoms, addressing your self-esteem might be a crucial step in your recovery.

7. Do I Struggle with Self-Care?

Self-esteem is closely tied to self-care. If you neglect your physical and emotional well-being because you don’t believe you deserve it, therapy can guide you toward healthier habits.

8. Am I Isolating Myself?

Isolating yourself from friends and family because you feel unworthy of their company is a sign of low self-esteem. Therapy can help you reconnect and build stronger relationships.

9. Do I Have a Negative Self-Image?

Your self-image, the way you see your physical self, is another aspect of self-esteem. If you constantly criticize your appearance, it might be time to work on improving your self-esteem.

When to Seek Self-Esteem Therapy

So, you’ve asked yourself these important questions and found that your self-esteem is in need of a boost. But when should you consider seeking self-esteem therapy? Here are some signs that it might be time:

1. You’ve Tried Self-Help but Aren’t Seeing Results

Self-help techniques, like positive affirmations or self-help books, can be beneficial. However, if you’ve tried them without significant improvement, it may be a sign that professional help is necessary.

2. Your Self-Esteem Is Affecting Your Daily Life

If low self-esteem is interfering with your daily life, such as your work, relationships, or overall happiness, it’s time to consider therapy.

3. You Want to Gain Deeper Self-Understanding

Therapy not only helps boost your self-esteem but also provides a space for self-exploration and understanding. If you’re curious about why you feel the way you do and want to make lasting changes, therapy can be a valuable tool.

4. You’re Ready for Personal Growth

If you’re committed to personal growth and positive change, self-esteem therapy can help you build the foundation you need to thrive.

How Self-Esteem Therapy May Look

Self-esteem therapy is a goal-oriented approach to improving self-esteem. The therapy process may include:

1. Self-Exploration

Therapy sessions are a safe space for you to explore your beliefs, experiences, and emotions that contribute to low self-esteem.

2. Cognitive Behavioral Techniques

Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is often used to challenge and reframe negative thought patterns. You’ll learn to recognize self-critical thoughts and replace them with more healthy and realistic ones.

3. Building Self-Compassion

Learning to be kind and compassionate to yourself is a key component of self-esteem therapy. You’ll develop self-acceptance and self-love.

4. Setting and Achieving Goals

Therapy can help you set and work toward achievable goals, which in turn can boost your confidence and self-esteem.

5. Stress Management

Managing stress and anxiety is often part of self-esteem therapy. Techniques for handling stress can be a game-changer for your self-esteem.

Online Self-Esteem Therapy

If you’re searching for self-esteem therapy, it’s important to know that therapy isn’t limited to in-person sessions. Online therapy is popular and accessible, allowing you to receive the help you need from the comfort of your home. This is especially valuable for young adults who lead busy lives and prefer the flexibility of virtual sessions.

Online self-esteem therapy offers the same benefits as in-person therapy. You’ll work with a licensed therapist who can provide guidance, support, and tools to boost your self-esteem. The convenience of online therapy means you can schedule sessions that fit your timetable and avoid the stress of commuting.

Florida Residents- Reach Out to Me

Improving your self-esteem is a worthwhile endeavor that can have a profound impact on your life. If you’ve found that you’re struggling with self-doubt, negative self-talk, and it’s affecting your overall happiness, seeking self-esteem therapy could be the key to positive change. Remember, self-esteem issues are common, and there’s no need to face them alone. I’m here to help!

If you’re in Florida, you can access my services for online therapy and my new online workshops (wherever you live) to help you on your journey to a happier, more confident you. If you don’t live in Florida and want self-esteem therapy, just search “self-esteem therapy near me.” You can also look on your insurance website for available therapists in your state. Don’t hesitate to reach out for support; you deserve to live a life where self-esteem isn’t a roadblock but a stepping stone to success and fulfillment.

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October 13, 2023October 13, 2023

ADHD and Me: Help for Young Adults

Welcome, young adults, to a conversation that might just change the way you perceive your world. Today, I’m delving into ADHD, or Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. You may have heard about it, or you might be curious because you’ve been struggling with symptoms that just don’t seem to fit into place in your life. In this post, I’ll explore what ADHD is, how it presents itself, and the crucial steps to consider if you think it might be a part of your life. I’ll give some options available, whether it’s medication, therapy, or a combination of both, and how to find the right therapist to support you on the journey of change.

Understanding ADHD

ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder that starts in childhood but can persist into adulthood. It’s not just about being a little more active or forgetful than your peers. ADHD involves a complex interplay of factors that affect your attention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity.

Symptoms and Life Functioning

To identify if ADHD might be a part of your life, here are some common symptoms to consider:

Inattentiveness: Do you find it challenging to stay focused on tasks or activities, often making careless mistakes? Does it seem like you’re frequently daydreaming or losing things necessary for tasks and activities?
Hyperactivity: Are you often fidgeting or tapping your feet, unable to sit still when it’s expected? Do you feel restless and find it challenging to relax?
Impulsivity: Do you struggle with impulsive decision-making, perhaps saying or doing things without thinking about the consequences? Do these impulsive choices sometimes get you into trouble, especially socially?
Organization and Time Management: Is keeping your life organized a constant struggle? Do you find it challenging to meet deadlines or manage your time effectively?
Forgetfulness: Are you frequently misplacing items or forgetting important dates and appointments, even when you’ve tried various methods to remember?
Academic or Occupational Challenges: Have you faced difficulties in school or work because of issues related to attention, hyperactivity, or impulsivity? Maybe you’re always late to class, forget to complete an assignment, or take longer to complete a task, missing a deadline.

It’s essential to remember that not everyone with ADHD will experience all of these symptoms, and the severity can vary widely. But, ADHD can significantly impact various aspects of your life, from relationships to your education or career.